We have all heard the famous line that “you need to breathe deeply when you are feeling stressed”. However, how much of it is actually true? I have heard from different people that when they practice deep breathing, the practice just makes them feel more anxious. What if we are doing it wrong? What if the wrong knowledge was passed on from generation to generation? To explain how breathing affects the nervous system, I will need to refer to the nervous system.
Let’s look at the facts
The Automatic nervous system (ANS) consists of the Parasympathetic nervous system (PNS) and the Sympathetic nervous system (SNS). The SNS is associated with the fight or flight response and is triggered by inhalation. The PNS is linked to exhalation and the PNS is associated to calmness and relaxation. Therefore, the flight and fight response is activated by inhalation and if someone is panicking and the person breathes quickly and deeply, the person’s health will deteriorate as the body will go into the hyperventilation mode. Thus, we should be very careful about the whole concept of deep breathing.
What’s the solution?
The solution is to activate the PNS by exhalation while bringing enough oxygen to the body by inhalation. Thus, our exhalation should be longer than our inhalation so that the PNS is activated and not the SNS. There exists a procedure which I will describe below:
Exhale completely by emptying your lungs
Inhale for a count of 4
Exhale for a count of 6
Repeat this cycle three times or till you feel completely relaxed
In the YouTube video below, I demonstrate the breathing technique and talk about the whole process again.
The inner critic is a part of you who is always active and influences your life without you paying attention to it. It’s a sort of villain which doubts your actions, creates guilt and sabotages your full potential and your next great life. This is why it is so important to talk about it. As we go over the exercise below, you are going to feel uncomfortable at times but trust me, the house needs to be washed and we are going to do it together. Don’t worry about it and hold my hand while we ride the storm.
The moment of truth/The exercise
I am going to ask you to do an exercise now. You will need a sheet of paper, a pencil and a lot of courage to actually get it done. Draw yourself in the middle of the page. It doesn’t need to be an accurate representation of yourself. It can be an avatar of yourself or a cartoon like version of yourself. From your drawing, draw 6 thought bubbles coming out of it. In these bubbles, you are going to write down all the negative thoughts that you tell yourself every day or have been telling yourself for a long time.
Possible Categories of thoughts
Since it can be actually hard to do it alone, I am going to give you some categories and possible negative thoughts from these categories. Please take the ones which you can relate to and modify them as per the emotions you feel as you read them. My advice is to actually do it with all your heart and let some tears, anger or frustration come out. It’s all part of the process.
Most common negative thoughts
There isn’t enough time
Life moves so fast that I can’t keep up
Life is frantic and uncontrollable
I have too much to do
Critical thoughts about myself
I am totally inadequate
I should be more smart, attractive, successful or rich
I am not worthy of success in life
I should be more like that person in my life
Thoughts about the world
The world is an awful place
The world is brutal and uncaring
People are the worst and cannot be trusted
There is no place for kindness in this world
No one can be trusted in this world
No one cares or loves me
I give myself too much and never get the love back
Thoughts about my actions and past
I am a failure
I didn’t achieve and I am pathetic
I should have listened to my wife/husband/parents/boss/friends and not do this
Thoughts about lack of purpose
I don’t know what I am doing
Where am I going with my life?
I feel like I am getting nowhere
What’s the point of doing anything? Nothing is fair anyway.
Interpreting others’ love and appreciation
No one loves me or cares for me
My partner/family member/friend is thoughtless and inconsiderate
I am so lonely
I will never find real love
Nobody cares about me
My life has no purpose
I don’t exist to people
After that you have done this exercise, you may well realize how much junk you keep telling yourself the whole day. Our experiences are shaped by our thoughts and your current life actually represents the thoughts you are having right now or is a result of your past thoughts. Now, all thoughts shouldn’t be replaced by sugar coated ones because this make us deluded. However, your thoughts shouldn’t put you in victim mode as well. The truth is that if you believe deep inside you, that people use you to their advantage, That is the kind of people you will attract in your life. If you take full responsibility of your success or failure and take action, you will be surprised by how powerful you will feel and you will be struck by the kind of people who will enter your life.
What to do next?
You draw yourself again on a fresh page now and write down the kind of thoughts you will tell yourself so that you live a life you really want to live. If the thoughts are completely trash, change them completely. However, if some have some truth to them, you may rephrase them. For example, “no one loves me” can be thrown away while “I have too much to do” can be phrased as “I am going to prioritize my heavy workload so that I do things which actually produce results”. My friend, you have so much potential. Trust me. Don’t grow old and be regretful about the past. Take action now.
As human beings, we are motivated to take actions if the result is going to make a major positive difference to ourselves. We also take actions when we scared that not taking action will put us in a very bad position. Hence, both positive and negative outcomes can be amazing triggers. In the exercise below, we will use these two triggers to push ourselves to take actions.
So Let’s do this amazing exercise together.
1: Think of a time in the past when you
were scared to take action and you took action and the end result was amazing.
Feel the emotions again. Possible examples are major events like having a
child, learning to drive or starting a new business. Awaken the inner hero in you. We have all
achieved great things in the past and reliving them can be an energy booster to
motivate us again.
Stage 2: Think about something you need to do. Write it down. Think about three best possible outcomes if you took action. Write them down. Feel the outcomes. How awesome you’d feel if you really met your goals, Isn’t it? Let these emotions become a part of you and make you want the goal you have set more and more. You really want to feel these emotions and you are going to do everything to get them.
Stage 3: Think about the 3 worst things that can happen if you don’t take action. Feel those outcomes again. You really don’t want to live those. Don’t you? Therefore, you need to take action so that you don’t have to live through those.
If you want an audio file for the same exercise, you can play my podcast on the link below. You can also subscribe for latest podcasts for no cost at all.
We are all set goals. Don’t we? Do we meet them though? As per the University of Scranton, 92 % of people who set goals do not actually achieve them. Why? I have a new set of questions to make you think a bit.
Do we feel empowered by the goals? Do we know how to get there? Do we really need these goals? Are we driven to get them? Do we believe deep down that we deserve them?
I will do my very best to extract all the wisdom I have got to prepare something for you because I really want you to succeed and live a life you don’t regret. Everything we will discuss should be viewed more as a process rather than a quick way of fixing things. People nowadays want quick solutions rather than a solid way to build their lives. For example, all these fancy energy bars, energy drinks and cereal bars instead to eating a very well balanced meal. If you want something, you have to work for it, sweat if off, bite the dust, learn and grow. That’s how it has always been and will continue to be. As from now, you either read it, philosophize it, take no action and continue playing the blame game or you hold my hand, let all these things sink in, draft your plans and take actions to make things happen so that you awaken your highest potential, the hero you are and who I want to see.
What are goals and how to create higher level
Goals are meant to inspire. They should be something that make you jump out of your bed, something that makes you want to go to work even in your worst physical and mental state. It should be something that will make you go through your worst day at the office, your business or your personal life. It’s something that acts as an anchor, something that makes you feel more than a man or a woman. Something that will make you feel unbreakable, unshakeable and beyond definition. Become something that people freak out when they cross your path because you are so pumped by your goals.
I will now go through examples so that I can explain my points and show you what I consider low quality and high quality goals.
Example 1- My goal is to get a decent job, earn enough to pay the bills and retire peacefully.
very standard and lacks the drive to make you go through the bad days. It has a limited mindset and doesn’t
encourage one to get out of the comfort zone, take risks and grow. You may be having all the titles at work, the
money and the fame, but if you are not growing as a human, you are dead. People equate money, fame and social status
to happiness but I know a lot of people who are rich with a heavy bank account
but miserable. True wealth is actually
genuine happiness. If you are genuinely
happy, you are winning the game my friend.
For example, Robin Williams had all the fame, money and love but was
depressed. Whitney Houston had all the
fame and success but was miserable again.
Example 2- My goal is to have the courage to get through the lousy job I have.
No matter how bad your current job or private life is, if you have a negative mindset and just complain, you are already losing the game and letting others control you. Change the mindset to “ I have a challenging job and it makes me better every day”. It’s the same situation but a different mindset is being used. Make sure you are in control and your thoughts will dictate your life. Ensure you have thoughts which empower you. If people want to judge you, let them do so. If people want to hate you, let them do so. Why does it matter to you? Do you need a pat on the back? Why expect a pat on the back? Forget about people. They don’t know you as you know you. Why care? Keep your intent pure, sharp and work. Let them dwell in their own nonsense. People want to be entertained and judge rather than grow. Dont be one of them, If you are reading this, I know you are not one of them.
So what’s a high level goal?
My goal is
to be confident, passionate and work to the best of my abilities and be the
best version of myself. I want to live a
life I don’t regret when I grow old and make a real difference in people’s
lives by uplifting them selflessly.
This is the
goal that drives me every day, guides my actions, gets me through the bad days
when people beat me down or backstab me.
It’s what keeps me going and will drive the rest of my live. It gives me chills up and down my spine and
make me feel like a superhero.
In my head, I am the richest man in the world. I teach what I love, have people who actually love me more than I love myself, have the best friends, family and students. I actually think of them more than I think about me and it makes me feel so empowered. As I am pouring my heart in this article, i am currently wanting you all to win, get all you want and succeed more and more and more. Life has a higher purpose and becomes so magical. Hence, do set them well as they will guide the quality of life you will be having.
some goals together
I recently ran a workshop on setting personal development goals and I will give you some pointers and show you how I broke down mine so that it has a purpose and emotion to it and it really drives me every day.
Some pointers for setting personal development goals
are as follows:
Consider character traits, attitudes, skills, what do
you want to master? What do you want to
How do you want to grow as a human being, spiritually,
as a husband, wife, boss or employee?
Traits you’d like to develop can be courage, honesty, responsibility,
drive, determination, compassion, understanding, patience, courage and loyalty.
Procedure: Once we have set a goal, you need to know why you want that goal. There’s a process called the 7-layer exercise or the journey from the mind to the heart in which you are able to connect the goal set to your core being and experience the emotion linked to the goal. In the process, you set the goal and ask why it’s important. Once you answer, you ask why again. You repeat this 7 times till the purpose comes up and you are now in your heart. My secret is that I keep that emotion alive daily so that I make a difference every day. Here we go.
Goal: I want to be confident and passionate.
Why? I want to be working to the best of my
Why? I want to live a life without regret
Why? I want
to be the best version of myself
Why? I want
to prove myself
Why? I want
to be appreciated
Why? I want
to be loved
Why? I want to feel I exist
When I actually wrote that down, my hands shook and my heart melted. When I actually taught it and gave this example to my lovely students, a few tears rolled down my cheeks too. This is the power of goal setting when done with your heart, your soul and with full conviction. Once you really set the goal and know the purpose, there’s really no stopping you and doors will open up, you will meet people, you will get all that you need without asking. All the universe asks from you is that you know your purpose and you do your very best.
Do you feel drained constantly, day in and day out? Is it becoming quite frequent now that you don’t want to get out of your bed to go to work? Do you feel like you are not going anywhere with your relationship, career, health or business? If all these questions seem to strike a chord deep inside your soul, I am probably asking the right ones.
We are always meeting requirements and getting stuff done. When we reach the end of our days, we are completely exhausted to look after ourselves. How do we get out of this pit? The problem lies here; we live our lives but we do not evaluate critical aspects of our lives and we perhaps do not ever ask ourselves what we really want in our lives. Maybe, we knew but we forgot as we continued coping with the chaos around us. At one point of my life, I knew teaching was the thing I had to do. I would teach for free because I felt alive while I did so. During my high school days, I would teach during break times and felt so happy to help people around. These were early signs that I would be an amazing teacher (not being cocky here folks) but you need to know your worth. You bloody need to in a society which tends to look only at your weaknesses but that’s another article.
What I do now is that every time I feel beaten up, I go back to what is really important to me. That stays my drive, the thing that can make me move during very hard days. It’s like focusing on the rope that will get you out of the waters when you are drowning. If you just focus on the threat of you drowning, you are already dead. You need to know what makes you tick as knowing it, you can devote all your energy to that goal and other things become not so important. When your goal isn’t clear, every minor thing that happen during the day will upset you and you will use emotional and mental energy on them. You need to find your highest purpose and invest totally in it. Trust me, nothing will be able to shake you if you do so.
Find a quiet space and pour all you heart out with
this exercise. Ask yourself what you don’t
want in your life. This question can be
linked to your career, health, private life, politics, the environment or any
other thing that influences your life.
Hence, what is it that you don’t want.
I am pretty sure that the link will be very long.
This exercise helps us to understand that we don’t
want a lot of things and spending time thinking about them is a waste of time.
Now write down what you really want in your life. It’s not a negation of the previous
statements in part 1. It would have been
too easy if it was. It’s something that
will liberate you. It’s beyond the
trivial answers that you may give like better health, more money, more fame and
so on. You see, each of us is born to
accomplish something here and each of us has a special skill and agenda hidden
deep inside of us. You need to find
yours. What is it that thing that you want
When I dug mine, I realized that I wanted to make a
difference in the lives of people and all my actions in fact are guided by
this. I would even go far by saying that
I help people who try to cause the most damage to me as well.
Let’s evaluate some key aspects of our lives which
need to be in harmony so that we are living happily. Hence, please spend some time writing down
where you are in your life when you consider the following:
Be very honest while you write down where you are with
each aspect as if this exercise is done well, it will be game changer for you.
Once you have those written down, start to make small
changes starting with the one needing the most attention right now. No need to do a 360 degrees change in your
life. Do small changes over the coming
weeks so that you end up having a major shift in your life over a year. Review where you are every month so that you
stay on your path to the new version of yourself.
As per Selye (1936), stress can be defined as the non-specific response of the body to any demand for change. However, what happens when the body gets overloaded with emotions? What happens when the mind completely shuts? What happens when you lose control over the situation? If all these things happen a bit too much, your self-esteem takes a real punch.
A panic attack strikes suddenly and we feel intense fear and discomfort till it reaches its peak within minutes. Some of the signs of a panic attack are as follows: palpitations, racing heart, sweating, trembling, shaking and shortness of breath. Personally, I have experienced panic attacks while sleeping and it’s surely not the right time you want to deal with things like this as the body needs to be at rest at that time and it’s something you don’t want to deal with during a quiet and lonely night where the feeling of fear and despair get the better of you. Negative thoughts show their ugly faces during this phase as well to make things more complicated.
How do we cope with panic attack in a mindful
First, let me tell you that when you start to practise the following techniques, the impact will be less as the emotions will still be overwhelming. Nevertheless, with practice, the panic attacks will have less effect on you. They will still come from time to time as it’s a natural thing to panic but they won’t affect you as you continue practising the following methods.
below a few things we can consider:
Is it real?
I am quite
sure that this makes you angry as the feelings of despair are real. You feel so bad. However, I have been there. No matter how bad you are feeling, with
mindfulness, you can realize that you are not the thoughts and emotions you are
experiencing at the moment. What I do is
that when the feelings come up, instead of reacting to them, I consciously drop
my shoulders and tell myself that all these things happening are not real. As the attack reaches its peak, you stay calm
and centered and you will be less affected.
Please refer to my article on the nature of thoughts on the following
link to understand more what I am trying to tell:
Breathing deeply has so many benefits as it detoxifies the body, improves the circulation of blood and settles the mind. There are specific ways in which we can breathe which will help us stay grounded. I have talked about correct breathing in the following article and these can be incorporated to our daily routine to lower the effect of panic attacks and stress in general. Please see article here: https://attentiveness.art.blog/2019/07/29/correct-breathing/
3. Increasing our awareness
Increasing our awareness by looking around, appreciating the different colours, shapes and textures with a nonjudgmental approach is such a powerful exercise and way of living. For example, you can listen without applying labels from the loudest to the faintest sound. You can touch the ground and feel the connection. You can also visualize the release of anxious feelings as cloud floating away in the sky or coming out of your head. I have recorded a grounding exercise I have recently done which summarizes the concepts we have just discussed. Please find it on the following link: https://clyp.it/vrwmsqd5
4. Expressing gratitude
We focus so much on our cravings, problems and all the things that don’t work in our lives. Do we take time to be grateful for the air we breathe, the legs which allow us to walk, the eyes which allow us to see, our jobs which allow us to make a difference in the lives of people, the close friends we have, our children, wife or husband who we have in our lives, our brother or sister or the most basic fact of being alive? Millions of people dies every day and here we are here. We can find an unlimited number of things to be grateful about and yet we focus on minor things which don’t improve our lives. Why? Wake up.. You won’t live forever.
There exists a very powerful Zen proverb which I love immensely. It goes like this: “If you don’t have time to meditate for an hour every day, you should meditate for two hours”. It really hits the nail on the head. We spend our lives over committing ourselves so much to so many things that we are always in a rat race and we do not know when to switch off. For example, there are people who wake up and start reading their mails. There are also those who spend their nights thinking about work and send late mails, shower and think about work, drive and think about work, be with their kids and think about other things. You do so many things but none of them are appreciated well or lived fully. You are always tense and think that you can’t afford to rest because something might happen or you are missing on something.
Is that really the life you want to live? Pretty dull, I would say. You see, I have done these things too and hit the brick wall, felt lonely and unsupported. It’s during those times, when you bite the dust that you actually have a shift in perception. Well, you are forced to because your relationships suffer, your health takes a punch and your self-esteem shatters. What if the whole point of life was never about acquiring more things? You are going to leave everything on earth when you die anyway. What’s the whole point of constantly chasing things? Over commitment to anything isn’t good either. You can’t perform at an optimum level when you are overworked. It’s as simple as that. The best decisions are taken when you can be calm and creative. What if life was meant to be lived by fully appreciating our actions, discovering our calm nature and creating a better environment for ourselves and others? People will remember a helping hand, a positive influence rather than your social status, your bank account or the car you drive.
What do we
do from here?
Ways to incorporate Mindfulness in our daily
If you have
a week packed with too many activities, you need to declutter. Take off activities which do not contribute positively
to your health and create space. If you
don’t manage your stress, your stress will manage you.
things you can start doing can be the following:
We can be grateful for many things we have. Legs that carry us, fresh air to breathe, good friends, a work that helps us to feed ourselves, the ability to see, feel and hear. Just being alive fills us with happiness. Happiness is a state of mind. Don’t try to find it outside of yourself.
2 Enjoying your coffee
minutes every day to enjoy your coffee at work or home and do nothing but just
drink the coffee. Do not check your
mails on the phone or read messages when you take your coffee break. Just close your eyes and drink. Taste every single drop. Hold in the mouth for some time and swallow. Breathe deeply, Sip, hold in your mouth and
swallow again. It will change your whole
Have a deep
breathing and relaxation routine everyday as explained in an earlier article
about correct breathing.
Unplugging from your routine
your routine by turning off the phone, stepping away from the computer and
taking a walk in nature. The body and
the mind is linked. The body feels good
when you breathe fresh air and exercise and the mind automatically calms itself
at the same time.
Close your eyes and visualize your goals of the week or the day after your relaxation routine. Feel your full potential inside yourself and see great things happening to you before you actually start off your day. The mindset of a winner is very important before we start anything.
I may disappoint you if I tell you that living mindfully is not about seeing everything in a beautiful way. In fact, we do not try to see everything through a lens of peace and love. We actually live our current context with much more awareness which might not be such a merry ride. Think about it. You become so aware of the body language of people and whether their intent matches their words. You end up reading people very well and actually become aware when people are lying to you and not. You actually begin to realize and understand how corrupted people may actually be when you meet them. It can be quite destabilizing.
You may have heard about the famous Zen saying “Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water; after enlightenment, chop wood and carry water”. This is a very profound saying which guides our practice. This is so because after a mindfulness session, you will still go in the outside world and continue dealing with people who can be manipulative, backstab or drain your energy. You may well ask, “what’s the point of being mindful?”
You see, we live our lives on auto pilot mode. We have a certain routine and we rarely appreciate the things we do fully. We are always in a rush and overthinking the things we do. Having a Statistician’s background before I became a yoga teacher and MBSR practitioner, I can tell you that I have always overthought many of my life events from taking loans till having a heartbreak. Every single detail is analysed and major changes made to one’s lives. What do we do, then?
Being mindful makes us become more aware to such a point that we realise easily when people are playing their mind games because we are not into their games and we are able to see things in a detached way. Hence, you can act and not react to situations. For example, when someone is yelling at you, you’d say that “we will talk when you calm down.” You will not get dragged into the game. What are the benefits? You keep your calm mental state, you don’t cause harm to the other person and to yourself. Now, let’s be mindful enough. If someone is coming to hit you, do defend yourself.
The more one practices mindfulness, one becomes more aware of one’s emotions. For example, when you get angry, you will be more aware of your anger and you will play several scenarios in your head and wait for the feelings to pass. You will not react. If you think that you might be losing it, you will get out of the situation and calm yourself down. For example, you may wish to go for a walk and get control of the situation again. What happens is that you will be acting only if it leads to something constructive because this is what it is being mindful.
In my next blog, I will talk about routines we can practise so that we live mindfully. Much love,
As per Indian philosophy, karma is the force that has the potential to cause people to reincarnate over and over again. Hence, actions which are morally right result in pleasant reincarnations while non moral actions or actions which inflict pain and suffering onto others result in not so pleasant reincarnations. Hence, how to we keep our Karma clean? Below is a guide about what we can do.
Tip 1: Identifying your karma
looking at areas where someone is stuck in.
If someone struggles with the same thing over and over again, it needs
to be reflected on to identify where the problems lie. We can check where the problems started and
untangle someone from the karmic knots.
Reverting to the origin of the issue will help people to advance to
their true potential.
Tip 2: Severe toxic ties
people who invade your field of energy with burdensome karma. It’s about politely distancing yourself from
people who bring more harm than good. If
someone’s energy doesn’t feel right, let go of the person.
Tip 3: Take full responsibility of your life
blame others for what is happening to us.
Our energy shifts when we admit our wrongs. We try to do things differently the next
time. It’s not about feeling guilty or
dwell in the past but consulting our karma when faced with a decision.
Tip 4 Heal your karma
perform actions that nourish our spirit.
They can learn to accept their karma and work with the universal cards
they have been dealt. Deeds can be done
to counteract accumulated karma from long ago and contribute to wellness of the
Tip 5 Defying one’s weakness
nature to view ourselves as having weaknesses and strengths. However, our weaknesses can be our hidden
strengths. They are part of us. Healers help people to stop being victim and
help them develop the courage to defy their downfalls and take the reins of
Tip 6 Take new action
We need to
change actions which do not benefit us.
Taking new action can help compensate all karmic debts and generate
positive karma. The highlight is that we
need to strive to do good even we are not expected to. It’s about taking care of ourselves and
others. We should act in ways we want
others to act towards us.
Tip 7 Forgive everyone
Forgiveness frees us. When we forgive, we detach from the anger, bitterness and frustration we have inside. Bad karma feeds off anger and resentment. It attracts people who feels resentment. It’s our emotions that put us in negative cycles.
Breathing is the first thing we do when we are born as we inhale and it’s the last thing we do when we die as we exhale. Oxygen and water are the two most important things that the body needs. However, is breathing only important for the good functioning of the body? In yoga and meditation, we can actually attain different levels of awareness through certain breathing techniques. In this case, the use of breathing is beyond the needs of the body in a certain way.
Breathing is important for the correct functioning of the body as oxygen helps turn food into energy. The lungs in the body take in oxygen to burn food into energy and release carbon dioxide. Therefore, we rely on air for our survival and to be more precise, oxygen. Oxygen feeds the cells in the body giving them energy for life.
What about optimum level of oxygen in the body?
We are going to use the analogy of a car to explain the optimum use of oxygen. Just like a new car has a very good level of fuel efficiency, a fit body can absorb more oxygen. It is also known that a body which is not overweight will also need less oxygen. You may think of a car having less passengers in it. It will need less fuel to travel and the drive will feel very comfortable. Hence, having a good diet, enough exercise and the weight well maintained are all very important to be breathing at an optimum level. The breath should not be treated as something different from the body. In terms of yoga, they are both one. For example, in yoga, doing a set of asanas/postures calm down the mind and a calm mind usually helps us to do a series of asanas/postures. From a broader perspective, the mind and the body are actually just one in that perfect yogic posture, hence the notion of oneness in yoga.
Having a healthy routine
You can have a healthy daily routine in the following way to keep yourself energized and relaxed.
1: Establish at least a healthy 30
minute daily workout which can be as simple as walking or a well-planned series
of exercises, yoga or fitness training to give the body a work out.
2: Have a daily breathing routine. Incorporate the breathing exercise I am going
to teach below.
Step 3: Have a full body relaxation with a guided body scan with a link to an audio file I have once again provided below.
After that you have done your 30 minutes work out, follow the following instructions:
Sit in a quiet place, turn off your mobile and
make sure your back is straight. Make
sure that no one will disturb you for the next 45 minutes. Perform the 4-7-8 breathing technique for 3
rounds where you breathe in for a count of 4, retain the air for a count of 7
and breathe out through the mouth for a count of 8. I give a demonstration of this breathing
technique on the following link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HVRtEoGb1-M&t=76s
Take very slow breaths in and out. They are very slow breaths where each breath in or out is equivalent to 1 second. For example, while breathing in, you could be counting 1-10 and while breathing out, you could be counting 1-10 again. It might take some time and practice to get it right.
Take 5 breaths in and out with both
nostrils. The 6th up to the
10 th breath will be breathing in through the nose but breathing out
through the mouth.
At this point in time, you would be
in a semi meditative state if you have done the exercise well.
The audio file can be downloaded for daily use as well.
As mentioned in the you tube video, we must not overdo the 4-7-8 breathing technique. Why? Breathing deeply brings more oxygen to the body and too much oxygen is called hyporoxia and this can damage our cells, leading to overproduction of reactive oxygen species (ROS) or free radicals. Having too little oxygen is called Hypoxia and this is not good as well. Hence, everything should be done with the right dosage and instructions well followed.